Online dating has become increasingly popular in recent years, with platforms like OkCupid allowing individuals to connect with potential partners from all over the world. While many users have had positive experiences using these apps, there are unfortunately some who have been scammed by individuals looking to take advantage of their emotions and finances. In this blog post, we’ll explore one woman’s experience with an online romance scammer she met on OkCupid named Giege. From promises of love to requests for money, we’ll delve into the red flags she encountered and what she wishes she had known before falling for this scam.
Transcription of Diane’s Story
What Happened?

Diane met a man named Giege on OkCupid and they had a good connection. However, Giege claimed to be abroad for work and lost his backpack with his cards and ID. He asked Diane to help with his Coinbase account, sending her all his banking information with passwords and security questions. Giege asked her to make two withdrawals from his account, but there were some issues, and he asked Diane to contact Coinbase’s Andrea Donald’s. She sent an email saying that $75,000 needed to be deposited into his account for him to be able to get a new “heart-token.” Giege promised to pay her back but kept asking for more money, even suggesting that Diane sell her stocks or property. Diane eventually took out two loans for him, but he blocked her when she couldn’t pay for his internet.
Diane was hopeful that she had found a true connection with Giege, but as time went on, she began to see some red flags. The constant requests for money, and the fact that Giege was always unavailable for video chat or phone calls, were causes for concern. Despite these concerns, Diane continued to believe that Giege was genuine and that their relationship was real.
As the situation with Giege escalated, Diane began to realize that she had fallen victim to an online romance scam. She had sent large sums of money to someone she had never met in person, and her personal and financial information was now compromised. Diane felt embarrassed and ashamed, but she also knew that she needed to take action to protect herself.
In the end, Diane was able to see the situation for what it was and cut off all contact with Giege. While the experience was painful, she learned a valuable lesson about the dangers of online dating and the importance of staying vigilant when it comes to sharing personal and financial information with strangers on the internet.
Miscellaneous Story Points

Unfortunately, Diane’s ordeal is far from over. She has been contacted by a man who she believes is Giege using a different name. Despite everything she went through with Giege, Diane is still hoping that this new person is real and that they can have a genuine relationship. However, it is important to note that scammers often use multiple identities to continue their fraudulent activities.
During our investigation into Giege, we discovered that the man claiming to be him was actually based in Nigeria. Now, Diane has started speaking to another man, who we have also found to be based in Nigeria. While it is possible that this new person is not a scammer, the fact that he is from the same country as Giege raises some red flags.







