{"id":39123,"date":"2026-02-13T14:16:24","date_gmt":"2026-02-13T22:16:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/scamfish\/?p=39123"},"modified":"2026-02-18T09:57:35","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T17:57:35","slug":"romance-scam-warning-signs-10-red-flags-and-how-to-protect-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/romance-scam-warning-signs-10-red-flags-and-how-to-protect-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Romance Scam Warning Signs: 10 Red Flags and How to Protect Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Romance scams cost Americans $1.14 billion in 2023, according to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ftc.gov\/business-guidance\/blog\/2024\/02\/love-stinks-when-scammer-involved\">FTC<\/a>. They cost Americans $1.14 billion in 2023, according to the FTC. The median individual loss was $2,000, but some victims lost over $100,000. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These financial extractions occur when a criminal adopts a fake identity to gain a target&#8217;s affection and trust, manipulating that connection to steal finances or personal information. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-romance-scam-warning-signs\">Romance Scam Warning Signs<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are the red flag patterns that show up again and again:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>They &#8220;love bomb&#8221; you early (intense feelings fast).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They push you off the dating app to text or WhatsApp.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They refuse (or can&#8217;t) do a normal video call.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Their job requires them to be overseas or always traveling.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Every plan to meet falls apart at the last minute.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They ask for gift cards, crypto, wire transfers, or payment apps.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Their story changes when you ask basic follow-up questions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They guilt you for doubts and try to isolate you from friends.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Their photos show up elsewhere when you reverse image search.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They ask for bank details, identity documents, or help moving money.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-scale-of-romance-scams\">The Scale of Romance Scams<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The FTC counted 64,003 romance scam reports in 2023, under the broader category of imposter scams.  If you&#8217;re reading this because something feels off, you are not alone. A lot of romance scams start with a message that seems harmless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What makes romance scams especially brutal is not just how often they happen, but how much people lose when scammers get their hooks in. There\u2019s also a reason these crimes feel so personal: romance scammers don\u2019t just ask for money. They build a routine around you. Daily messages. Good morning texts. Long calls. Then they start shaping your decisions and your sense of reality. This trust-building process often escalates into a money request with an urgent story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-romance-scams-work\">How Do Romance Scams Work?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Most romance scams follow the same script: initial contact, fast intimacy, isolation, and the ask. The FTC and FBI both describe this pattern, where scammers build trust and then ask for money, often while making meeting in person impossible. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A typical timeline looks like this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"stage-1-contact-and-chemistry-days-to-2-weeks\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stage 1: Contact and &#8220;chemistry&#8221; (days to 2 weeks)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They meet you on a dating app or social platform, then quickly turn the conversation personal. You get lots of attention, lots of compliments, and a sense of momentum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"stage-2-commitment-before-verification-weeks-1-to-6\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stage 2: Commitment before verification (weeks 1 to 6)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the love-bomb phase. They talk about exclusivity, marriage, or moving. They may push you off-platform (&#8220;I don&#8217;t use this app much, let&#8217;s talk somewhere private&#8221;).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"stage-3-isolation-and-pressure-weeks-3-to-10\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stage 3: Isolation and pressure (weeks 3 to 10)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They frame privacy as romance. They may guilt you for not replying fast enough, or act offended when you ask normal questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"stage-4-the-ask-often-starts-around-week-4\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Stage 4: The ask (often starts around week 4)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The story varies, but the ask is usually money, financial access, or help moving funds. The FTC warns about urgent &#8220;sad story&#8221; requests, and the FBI says scammers may promise to meet but will always have an excuse. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-are-the-red-flags-of-a-romance-scammer\">What Are the Red Flags of a Romance Scammer?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A single weird moment isn\u2019t proof. A pattern is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Below are the most common romance scam warning signs, with what they look like in conversation and why they matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"1-they-push-intimacy-fast-before-identity-is-verified\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">1) They push intimacy fast (before identity is verified)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If someone is calling you \u201cmy wife\u201d or \u201cmy husband\u201d before a normal video call, slow down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why scammers do it: commitment creates urgency. If you feel bonded, you\u2019re more likely to ignore contradictions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: pause the pace. Ask for a video call at a specific time. If they dodge twice, treat it as data.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Romance scams are a specific, often high-stakes version of identity fraud. While the emotional tactics differ, the underlying deception is the same; understanding the general signs of how to<strong> <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/how-to-tell-if-someone-is-catfishing-you\/\">tell if someone is catfishing you<\/a> is your first line of defense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"2-they-want-to-move-off-the-dating-platform-immediately\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">2) They want to move off the dating platform immediately<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This one is so common it should be a default \u201cyellow flag.\u201d The FBI warns that scammers often ask you to leave the dating site or social platform quickly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why it matters:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Apps have reporting tools, anti-fraud systems, and message history.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Moving to encrypted messaging can make reporting harder.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: keep chat in-app until you\u2019ve verified identity. If they refuse, that\u2019s the answer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If the situation feels like catfishing, this <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/what-to-do-if-youre-being-catfished-a-step-by-step-guide\/\">step-by-step guide on what to do if you\u2019re being catfished<\/a> dives deep to help confirm whether someone is who they claim to be, protect your information, and know exactly what to do if you find out you\u2019ve been deceived.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"3-they-cant-do-a-normal-video-call\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">3) They can\u2019t do a normal video call<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not \u201ca call sometime.\u201d A normal call, at a normal time, with a normal camera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Common excuses:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cMy camera is broken.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cThe connection is bad.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cI\u2019m not allowed because of my job.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why it matters: romance scammers rely on distance. A simple video call collapses the illusion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: request a short call with a real-time proof (wave, say today\u2019s date, show a room). If they get angry, that\u2019s also information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"4-their-job-explains-everything-and-blocks-meeting\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">4) Their job explains everything (and blocks meeting)<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scammers often choose jobs that come with built-in excuses: deployed military, doctor on assignment, contractor overseas, oil rig worker. The FBI calls out claims of being abroad as a common feature of romance scams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why it works: it makes the impossible seem reasonable. No meeting, odd hours, bad service, secrecy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: ask specific, verifiable questions about the job. Then fact-check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"5-they-always-have-an-excuse-for-not-meeting\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">5) They always have an excuse for not meeting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s a difference between \u201clife is busy\u201d and \u201cwe\u2019ve been talking for months and we still can\u2019t meet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What this looks like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A planned trip gets canceled last minute.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A sudden emergency appears the day before travel.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>They keep promising \u201csoon.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why it matters: the meeting is where most victims would realize the story isn\u2019t real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: set a boundary. If you can\u2019t meet by a reasonable date, you stop investing emotionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"6-the-conversation-starts-orbiting-money\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">6) The conversation starts orbiting money<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It might begin as \u201cI\u2019m stressed\u201d and end as \u201cI need help.\u201d The FTC warns that romance scammers eventually make up a story and ask for money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Common \u201creasons\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Plane ticket<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Surgery or hospital bill<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Customs fee for a package<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Legal trouble or bail<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A business deal that needs \u201ctemporary help\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: treat any request as a stop sign. Real relationships do not require you to pay to prove love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"7-they-ask-for-payment-methods-that-are-hard-to-reverse\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">7) They ask for payment methods that are hard to reverse<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gift cards, crypto, wire transfers, and bank transfers show up repeatedly in FTC guidance for a reason: they\u2019re difficult to recover. Never send money, crypto, or gift cards to someone you haven\u2019t met in person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you hear any of these, assume scam until proven otherwise:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cJust send a gift card and scratch the back.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cCrypto is faster.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cWire transfer is the only way.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"8-they-ask-for-bank-details-or-want-to-deposit-money-into-your-account\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">8) They ask for bank details or want to \u201cdeposit money\u201d into your account<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is not romance. This is fraud, and it can pull you into criminal activity. If someone you meet online needs your bank account information to deposit money, they are likely using your account for other theft and fraud schemes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: never share bank details, login credentials, verification codes, or account screenshots. If you already did, jump to the action steps below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"9-their-story-changes-under-basic-followup-questions\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">9) Their story changes under basic follow-up questions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Truth has texture. Real people can answer simple questions consistently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Watch for:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Vague answers that never get specific.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Details that shift (age, location, timeline).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anger when you ask normal things.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do: write down key claims. Check them later. Scammers rely on you not tracking inconsistencies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 id=\"10-their-photos-fail-verification\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">10) Their photos fail verification<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A reverse image search will reveal the ultimate truth to see if the photos are associated with another name or story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What to do:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Run the profile photo through a <a href=\"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/reverse-image-search\/\">reverse image search<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Run any \u201cnew\u201d photo too. Scammers often switch images to stay ahead.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you find the same photo tied to multiple names, that\u2019s a major red flag.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><div class=\"search_mb_2020 scfb_mb_search scfb_full_search blog_content_search\"> <div class=\"search-form-2020\"  data-js-r=\"search.form\">\n    <div class=\"row tabs-content\">\n        <div class=\"scf-tooltip-badge-target\" data-badge-number=\"1\" data-badge-position=\"badge-bl\"><\/div>\n        <div class=\"col-sm-3\">\n\n            <div class=\"tabs\" data-pause=\"false\">\n                <div class=\"dropdown-overlay\"  data-js-r=\"search.form.dropdown_overlay\"><\/div>\n                <a data-item=\"0\" data-type=\"2\" href=\"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/\" class=' active '><i class=\"si-user\"><\/i> <span>Name<\/span><\/a>\n                <a data-item=\"1\" data-type=\"1\" href=\"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/reverse-email-address-search\/\" class=' '><i class=\"si-email\"><\/i> 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them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Deployed military<\/strong>: explains distance, secrecy, and sudden &#8220;fees&#8221; to travel.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Doctor\/aid worker abroad<\/strong>: creates urgency and moral pressure.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Oil rig worker\/engineer<\/strong>: explains spotty calls and &#8220;big payout soon.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Widowed parent<\/strong>: builds sympathy and a &#8220;help my family&#8221; angle.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Wealthy investor<\/strong>: pivots into crypto and &#8220;let me teach you.&#8221; These romance scams often shift into &#8220;investment&#8221; talk, including cryptocurrency.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-verify-if-someone-is-a-scammer\">How to Verify if Someone is a Scammer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"schema-how-to wp-block-yoast-how-to-block\"><p class=\"schema-how-to-description\">You can do basic verification in under 30 minutes.<\/p> <ol class=\"schema-how-to-steps\"><li class=\"schema-how-to-step\" id=\"how-to-step-1771017896072\"><strong class=\"schema-how-to-step-name\"><strong>Reverse Image Search Their Photos<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-how-to-step-text\">Check the profile photo and anything they send as &#8220;proof.&#8221; Perform a reverse image search to see if photos connect to another name or story.<br\/><br\/>Start with:<br\/>&#8211; Profile photo<br\/>&#8211; Any photo they claim is recent<br\/>&#8211; Any \u201cproof\u201d photo sent after you expressed doubt<br\/><br\/>Best practice: search multiple photos. Scammers sometimes mix real and stolen images.<\/p> <\/li><li class=\"schema-how-to-step\" id=\"how-to-step-1771017952385\"><strong class=\"schema-how-to-step-name\"><strong>Validate Phone Numbers and Contact Details<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-how-to-step-text\">If you have a phone number, run a <a href=\"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/reverse-phone-lookup\/\">reverse phone lookup<\/a> to see if it matches the name, location, and history you were told.<br\/><br\/>If the number doesn\u2019t match what you\u2019ve been told, ask a direct question. Honest people clarify. Scammers deflect.<\/p> <\/li><li class=\"schema-how-to-step\" id=\"how-to-step-1771018005815\"><strong class=\"schema-how-to-step-name\"><strong>Cross-Check Their Story in Public Places<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-how-to-step-text\">Search their name, city, employer, and usernames. If they claim a job or background that should leave a trace, you should find something consistent.<br\/><br\/>Ask for specifics that should exist if the story is real:<br\/>&#8211; Employer or unit name (if military)<br\/>&#8211; City and workplace (if doctor)<br\/>&#8211; Past location history<br\/>&#8211; Long-term social accounts that show real life over time<br\/><br\/>If their entire presence is a brand-new profile with perfect photos and no history, that\u2019s not proof, but it\u2019s a strong risk signal.<\/p> <\/li><li class=\"schema-how-to-step\" id=\"how-to-step-1771018024340\"><strong class=\"schema-how-to-step-name\"><strong>Ask For a Simple Real-Time Proof Test<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-how-to-step-text\">A quick video call where they do something specific in real time (say today&#8217;s date, wave, turn the camera) is often enough to confirm if you&#8217;re dealing with a real person.<br\/><br\/>If they refuse repeatedly and still push intimacy, you\u2019re not dealing with a normal situation.<br\/><br\/>Learn <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/how-to-verify-the-identity-of-someone-you-meet-online-2\/\">how to verify the identity of someone you meet online<\/a> and go deeper on verification steps if you want a more thorough checklist.<\/p> <\/li><li class=\"schema-how-to-step\" id=\"how-to-step-1771018058278\"><strong class=\"schema-how-to-step-name\"><strong>Check Whether They\u2019re Using Multiple Identities<\/strong><\/strong> <p class=\"schema-how-to-step-text\">A quick way to test:<br\/>&#8211; Search their username across platforms.<br\/>&#8211; Look for other profiles using the same photos.<br\/><br\/>If you suspect they\u2019re active on multiple dating sites, learn <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/how-to-find-someone-on-dating-sites-free\/\">how to find out if someone is on dating sites<\/a> and what to look for and where.<\/p> <\/li><\/ol><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-protect-yourself-even-if-you-haven-t-been-scammed\">How to Protect Yourself (even if you haven&#8217;t been scammed)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These habits make you a hard target:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Keep early chats on-platform.<\/strong> Dating apps can review and remove abusive accounts faster when the messages are inside their system.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Verify before you invest.<\/strong> Reverse image search, verify phone numbers, and ask for a real-time video call before you share personal details.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Treat money as a stop sign.<\/strong> The rule is simple: do not send money, gift cards, crypto, or wire transfers to someone you haven&#8217;t met in person.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Do not share account access.<\/strong> No bank logins, no codes, no &#8220;help me receive a transfer.&#8221;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Tell one person in your real life.<\/strong> Isolation is a tactic. Loop in a friend early.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Watch for urgency.<\/strong> Scams thrive on &#8220;right now.&#8221; Real relationships can handle a slow pace.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Keep receipts.<\/strong> If something turns suspicious, screenshots and transaction details are what investigators need.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want a simple rule: verify identity first, romance second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scammers almost always use stolen imagery to lure victims into a false sense of security. To verify if their profile picture belongs to someone else, you should learn how to <a href=\"https:\/\/wp.socialcatfish.cloud\/scamfish\/find-someone-with-a-photo\/\">find someone with a photo<\/a> to see where else those images appear on the web.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><div class=\"search_mb_2020 scfb_mb_search scfb_full_search blog_content_search\"> <div class=\"search-form-2020\"  data-js-r=\"search.form\">\n    <div class=\"row tabs-content\">\n        <div class=\"scf-tooltip-badge-target\" data-badge-number=\"1\" data-badge-position=\"badge-bl\"><\/div>\n        <div class=\"col-sm-3\">\n\n            <div class=\"tabs\" data-pause=\"false\">\n                <div class=\"dropdown-overlay\"  data-js-r=\"search.form.dropdown_overlay\"><\/div>\n                <a data-item=\"0\" data-type=\"2\" href=\"https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/\" class=' active '><i class=\"si-user\"><\/i> <span>Name<\/span><\/a>\n                <a data-item=\"1\" data-type=\"1\" 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States of<\/option><option value=\"MD\">Moldova, Republic of<\/option><option value=\"MC\">Monaco<\/option><option value=\"MN\">Mongolia<\/option><option value=\"ME\">Montenegro<\/option><option value=\"MS\">Montserrat<\/option><option value=\"MA\">Morocco<\/option><option value=\"MZ\">Mozambique<\/option><option value=\"NA\">Namibia<\/option><option value=\"NR\">Nauru<\/option><option value=\"NP\">Nepal<\/option><option value=\"NL\">Netherlands<\/option><option value=\"AN\">Netherlands Antilles<\/option><option value=\"NC\">New Caledonia<\/option><option value=\"NZ\">New Zealand<\/option><option value=\"NI\">Nicaragua<\/option><option value=\"NE\">Niger<\/option><option value=\"NG\">Nigeria<\/option><option value=\"NU\">Niue<\/option><option value=\"NF\">Norfolk Island<\/option><option value=\"MP\">Northern Mariana Islands<\/option><option value=\"NO\">Norway<\/option><option value=\"OM\">Oman<\/option><option value=\"PK\">Pakistan<\/option><option value=\"PW\">Palau<\/option><option 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