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When scrolling on Instagram<\/a>, you might have noticed someone randomly stumble amongst your DM’s.<\/a> This person probably stated that you were the most beautiful person in the world and wanted to get to know you more. Then once you talked to them for a few months, they started asking you for money and won’t leave you alone. If this sounds similar to someone that you’ve been talking to, then you’re probably communicating with an Instagram romance scammer. In this article, we cover what is a romance scammer<\/a>, the signs of an Instagram romance scammer, and how to avoid romance scammers on Instagram.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is a Romance Scammer?<\/h2>\n\n\n[aesop_image img=”https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/scamfish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/pexels-craig-adderley-1670035-scaled.jpg” panorama=”off” imgwidth=”100%” align=”center” lightbox=”off” captionsrc=”custom” captionposition=”center” revealfx=”off” overlay_revealfx=”off”]\n\n\n\n

A romance scammer<\/a> is someone who creates a fake profile on Instagram<\/a> and tries to start fake relationships with random people. They sweep their victims off their feet by saying how gorgeous they are and how they want to get to know them better. They keep talking to the victim on a daily basis until they fall in love with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once the scammer gains their victim’s trust, the scammer starts coming up with excuses as to why they need money.<\/a> They usually start off with something small, such as money for food or other small expenses. Then, they create a more serious excuse and usually claim that their life or job is on the line if they don’t receive a large sum of money. Romance scammers continuously ask their victims for money until they drain their bank account.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5 Signs of an Instagram Romance Scammer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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They Ask You For Personal and Financial Information<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Scammers will come up with an emergency excuse, such as losing their job or being in the hospital<\/a>, to steal money and information<\/a> from their victims. For example, they might claim that they need access to your bank account in order to help pay for whatever emergency they are going through. They also have asked for victims\u2019 personal information<\/a> in order to participate in an investment opportunity or claim they need to ship something to their house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They might even need details to your social media profiles<\/a> to supposedly change your setting to prevent your account from being hacked.<\/a> Whatever the excuse is, any financial or personal information should be kept to yourself, no matter what. If there really is an emergency, the scammer would contact their family or friends to help them, not someone that they just met online. Also, don’t give them any gift cards<\/a>, wire transfers<\/a>, or Bitcoin<\/a> for any reason.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They Form a Relationship With You Very Quickly<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

If they say “I love you,” after only three weeks of knowing you, then you know that they are just faking their love for you. Scammers will only claim to love you<\/a> so that they can get their hands on your hard-earned money. They think that if they can gain your trust by claiming how in love they are with you, then you’ll fall for their scams and not question their stories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These stories can be emergency excuses or stories that make it sound like the scammer<\/a> is in danger somehow. Since they made you fall hard for them, they know that the first thought you would have is helping them rather than questioning what they are saying. Therefore, by rushing the relationship they actually rush how fast someone can be scammed.<\/p>\n\n\n[aesop_image img=”https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/scamfish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-pixabay-248533-scaled.jpg” panorama=”off” imgwidth=”100%” align=”center” lightbox=”off” captionsrc=”custom” captionposition=”center” revealfx=”off” overlay_revealfx=”off”]\n\n\n\n

They Claim They Can’t Video Chat With You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Scammers create fake profiles<\/a> all the time using stolen images from public profiles and social media influencers<\/a>. They can voice-over videos and photoshop images to make you believe whatever they want you to believe. Therefore, it\u2019s always a good idea to try and meet someone in person or video chat with them before getting into a serious relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they come up with an excuse as to why they can\u2019t meet you in person or video chat with you, they are most likely a scammer and stole someone else\u2019s images. If their video chat is seriously lagging or their voice doesn\u2019t match the video, there\u2019s also a chance they could be faking the video chat.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They Make Excuses To Not Meet You in Person<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Scammers create fake profiles and usually live in Nigeria<\/a>, even though they usually claim that they live somewhere else. Whenever their victims ask to meet them in person, they usually make up excuses as to why they can’t. These excuses might range from they are stuck at work, they don’t have the money, they got in an accident, there’s an emergency… etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If someone consistently states that they want to see you but their plans always fall through, then they are most likely a scammer. They make it sound like they are making the effort to come to see you in order to keep you on the hook. However, these attempts are made up and they usually lie about why they can’t come and see you afterward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They Claim to Be in the Military or an Oil Rig Worker<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Scammers will claim that their occupation is the military<\/a> or an oil-rig worker<\/a> since these are both overseas jobs. It is easy to pretend to be someone you aren\u2019t if you have an overseas job as an excuse as to why you can\u2019t video chat someone or meet them in person. It is also easy to use these occupations as excuses to try and scam their victims out of their hard-earned money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They can say that they need help getting off the oil rig, they need help with medical bills after a military injury, they need help getting a gun for their services, they need help getting home, and plenty more excuses to get their victims to send them money. The military or oil rig will NEVER require their employees to pay to get back home, for medical bills, or for food. Therefore, if you are talking to someone in the military or an oil-rig worker who isn\u2019t willing to video chat with you or meet you in person while also asking you for money, chances are they are a scammer.<\/p>\n\n\n[aesop_image img=”https:\/\/socialcatfish.com\/scamfish\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-karolina-grabowska-4386374-scaled.jpg” panorama=”off” imgwidth=”100%” align=”center” lightbox=”off” captionsrc=”custom” captionposition=”center” revealfx=”off” overlay_revealfx=”off”]\n\n\n\n

Common Romance Scammer\u00a0Phrases<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Romance scammers often use common phrases to gain the trust and affection of their victims. Some of these phrases may include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. “I can’t wait to be with you.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  2. “You are the only one who understands me.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  3. “I’ve never felt this way before.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  4. “I’m so lucky to have found you.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  5. “I want to spend the rest of my life with you.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  6. “You’re my soulmate.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  7. “I’ll do anything for you.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  8. “I miss you so much.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  9. “I can’t imagine life without you.”<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  10. “I love you more than anything in the world.”<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    It’s important to keep in mind that these phrases are not always indicative of a romance scam, but they can be red flags when combined with other suspicious behavior, such as asking for money or personal information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Enter The Suspected Scammer’s Information Here…<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

    By performing a reverse search with Social Catfish<\/a>, you will most likely be able to find out whether the person you are talking to is a scammer or not. All you need to do is enter their name, email address, phone number, social media username, or image to see who it is you’ve really been talking to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Run a reverse search here:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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